In the polyamorous world, a unicorn refers to a person—most often a single bisexual (or bi-curious) woman—who chooses to join an existing couple in forming a triad or throuple. This connection is often both romantic and sexual, with the unicorn being open to building intimacy and bonds with both partners. The term “unicorn” is used because finding someone willing to love and connect with a couple in this way is considered rare, unique, and almost magical.
At SubmitOrNot, we celebrate unicorns as real people with their own desires, boundaries, and needs. For couples, the key is respect, honesty, and open communication—because when everyone is valued, a triad can become something beautiful, balanced, and deeply fulfilling.
đź’ˇ Tips for Respectfully Seeking a Unicorn
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Be transparent: Share your relationship dynamic, what you’re looking for, and your intentions honestly from the start.
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Treat her as equal: A unicorn isn’t a fantasy add-on—she deserves the same love, respect, and voice as both partners.
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Go slow & communicate: Take time to build trust, set boundaries, and nurture connection. The best triads grow naturally.
